Saturday, March 7, 2009

Francis Magalona, 44

Rapper-TV host Francis Magalona died Friday at the Medical City in Pasig City, his co-hosts at the GMA Network’s noontime show “Eat Bulaga” said. He was 44.

Magalona succumbed to multiple organ failure “secondary to severe sepsis and secondary to pneumonia,” according to a hospital source. He passed away at 12 noon, said Philippine Daily Inquirer sources.

In his final blog entry written on January 14, 2009, he addressed fans and requested their prayers.

“I look forward to the pain as I know my journey is on full speed ahead. I will not be bold to say that without asking a favor from you all. PLEASE PRAY for me as I undergo treatment. Your prayers, as always, have sustained me. And am sure the Lord will listen to all our prayers. To His will I submit myself.”

An Ilonggo
As a biography, Francis Magalona was born on October 4, 1964. His birth name was Francis Michael Durango Magalona and he was one of nine siblings. His parents, Pancho Magalona and Tita Duran, were both Philippine movie screen legends and his grandfather was Senator Enrique Magalona.

Monday, March 2, 2009

Random Things About Me

I have been tagged by Odette, (A View From Above) and I promised her to make up a list of random things about me. So here they are:

1. Random Habit: I bite my lower lip. I usually do this when I am nervous or thinking deeply about something I am trying to figure out or listening keenly to somebody talking to me. Strangers mistakenly confuse it as a “turn on” or "flirting" lip language thing… whatever that is. Well, I have to start pouting then, and let them figure out what that means.

2. Random Fact: I am a sleepyhead. Inside a moving bus, car, airplane, terminals, park bench, a friend’s shoulder, etc. Give me a nice place to lean my head on… and I will just doze off.

3. Random Fact: I hate garlic. The smell really makes me sick! Hey! I think my family tree needs a little pruning. I could be the mutant Transylvanian variety.

4. Random Fact: I love cigarettes. They keep me company when I am alone, after every meal, while doing write-ups or catching up a work deadline.

5. Random Fact: I am a fitness freak. I had a set of dumbbells and a bench when I was in college. I was a member of a swimming team too. Now that I can afford to pay gym membership, I keep up a regular workout program for my “baby” and me. It is really fun!

6. Random Dream: To be so damn wealthy and be a philanthropist! Beat that Bill and Melinda Gates!

7. Random Wish: To die for a good cause. It is a strange feeling. But dying to save somebody’s life seems to be the greatest of all deeds to me. Or dying to save humanity perhaps would be my own way of paying back God for the life He has given me. I heard stories of dying people donating their insides for the sick and brave men going to war leaving their families behind to serve God and country. I admire them. I admire brave people.

8. Random Fact: I am a hopeless romantic or at least, I am getting there. Do I need to explain that?

9. Random Fact: I am (sort of) ambidextrous. Writes with my right, cuts with my left, paints with my left, punches with both, swings both ways, etc., whew! Love it!

10. Random Fact: I had my first accident when I was six years old. I saw my nanny going out of our main gate to buy something at a store across the street. I ran after her but got hit by a speeding jeep when I was about to cross the street. I woke up in the hospital a few days later. The driver ran away never to be seen again. My nanny is still working with us up to now – as our cook.

11. Random Fact: This tagging thing is driving me nuts! Can I just settle for eleven instead of twenty Odette!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

The Age of Responsibility

Growing up was fun especially during our teenage years. To parents, this was the dreaded period of peril as they sleeplessly and nervously watched their children grew up becoming young adults. Their demands for more freedom and breathing space to express their individuality piled on rapidly within the next seven years or so. However, to a teenager, the party was just about to begin. And by that, I meant beer, booze and brandy.

During my teenage years, my country (Philippines) was under Martial Law. Minors below the age of twenty-one caught under the influence of alcohol faced long-term imprisonment and hard labor. So my cohorts and I considered ourselves “late bloomers” as the dreadful situation during our time put our adrenalin “shots” within a certain threshold. We never felt the kind of rush like the new wave kids are going through right now. Nevertheless, it was not something to feel sorry.

The topic of the talk show I was watching last night wrapped around the legal drinking age. Lately, a petition was filed in the US requesting the drinking age be lowered to 18. The issue triggered an outpouring of emotions from parents, as they have to deal with another problem in addition to the mounting case of premarital sex, teenage pregnancy and drugs.

The legal drinking age around the world ranged between zero to twenty-one. The US National Minimum Drinking Act in 1984 dictated twenty-one as the legal age for its citizen to consume alcohol. And for that, United States uniquely was the highest in the world, closely followed by Japan and South Korea. Countries with no MDA (Minimum Drinking Age) like China, Thailand and Vietnam ranked bottom.

Why the unusual high drinking age? Advocates of the current law believed the earlier the teenager started drinking alcohol the more likely he became alcoholic later in life. Another reason was, the law does not want teenagers to obtain their driver’s license the same time they were allowed to drink alcohol. They thought the newly found freedoms do not mix. There may be a grain of truth to this. But that did not explain the high rate of alcohol related misdemeanor American teenagers committed before they reached twelfth grade. Was it because teenagers were not allowed to legally drink, that is why they did it in secret? If Americans were worried about alcohol related accidents then which should come first? Driving age or drinking age?

From this perspective, it seemed the Drinking Act sowed more harm than good in the last two decades. Setting the legal age to 21 made criminals out of the overwhelming majority and enforcing the law until everyone gave in was pointless. Lowering the age to 18 will not even do wonders either.

It is time for a new approach, a new line of attack. I think it should start with a new attitude towards drinking alcohol. If teenagers are allowed to drink, they should do it with adult supervision to avoid excess. Just like teaching them how to drive a car before giving them a license. European teenagers’ first encounter with a glass of wine is at the dinner table under the watchful eye of their parents, not at a binge drink - promoting frat party. Responsibility is one of the key aspects in successfully implementing the law.

After the lifting of Martial Law, the Philippines saw a new beginning. Finally, patience paid off. It called for a celebration. It was then that I had my first mug of icy cold draft beer at Shakey’s – at 20 years old.

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Sandstorm

It is now the second day and the severe sandstorm is not showing any signs of letting up. Just to give you an idea how does it look like here in Al Jubail, Eastern Province, Saudi Arabia.

The photos were taken yesterday at 7:00 in the morning on my way to the office.




Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Again And Again

Is there a limit to saying, “It is okay…” to somebody who repeatedly keeps on doing the same mistake, and in the end would just say, “I am sorry…” and expects a gentle tap on the shoulder and just call everything quits?

I am so glad I do not have this kind of friends!